Non-sabotaging and loving states can be achieved when we choose to healthily reframe some of the messages we carry around within us (self-talk).Some Healthy Reframing Statements
by Steve King
If you have some reframe statements that you have found helpful and are willing to share and have posted on this site then please e-mail them to me at stking@vip.net
I can`t (I don't know how) or (I haven't yet).
I don't know how (I don't know how YET)
My problem (my challenge).
I`m stressed (I could use a little peace right
now).
Breaking a habit (dissolving the need).
I`m anxious (I need to redirect my energy).
I`m exhausted (I need to refuel).
I failed (I stubbed my toe this time).
I`m lonely (It's quiet time right now).
I`m lost (I'm looking for my next level).
I`m nervous (I'm alert).
I`m overwhelmed (I'm ready for new perspective).
I`ve been rejected (I'm given new input).
Cold calling (rapport practice).
Closing a sale (welcoming someone aboard).
I hate (I prefer something else).
It`s terrible (it needs improvement).
Diet (developing new tastes).
Some of my own favourite reframing messages
include;
“I can choose peace instead of this.”
“I am cordially invited to change my mind.”
“I can choose to let go of feelings that hurt.”